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Post by Beakerboys Racing on Oct 6, 2009 7:40:09 GMT -7
My parents believed in spanking as a disciplinary tool. I, of course, disagreed with them at the time. I still do. So it did my heart well to meet another parent recently who told me about another way of dealing constructively with misbehavior that does not involve spanking. One of the things we discussed was the act of spanking and my new friend explained that no, he does not spank any of his children. He explained that what he does is to take the misbehaving child out for a ride in the car and talk. He said that usually this works and that the child calms down fairly quickly and really doesn’t take too much time. By removing the child, in this case his son, from the immediate situation and providing a change of scenery, the child is allowed to focus on something different. Once the child has the opportunity to change perspective, things get better quickly and the child has better understanding of his place within the family and begins to understand the families concept of acceptable behavior. He kindly shared a picture of the process which I share with you now.
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Post by Bones on Oct 6, 2009 8:55:32 GMT -7
Kinda reminds me of when Dad and I used to go on our rides. Oh the memories, chokes me up when I think about it.
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Post by W Racing on Oct 6, 2009 8:59:23 GMT -7
Beaker that is too funny!!!!!!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by SRC Racing on Oct 6, 2009 18:23:03 GMT -7
that was good beak,,very good
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